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How Much Is Your Popcorn Worth? Powerful Lessons In Marketing & The Psychology Of Selling - Part 1 that really mean? I know what feeling supported and being supported means to me but I don’t know what that means to anyone else. What are people really asking for? Seeking clarification (get specifics!), about what people want/need/expect invites you to show up and respond (to that need for support) from your heart. Win-win. (Note. Using this example, don’t assume that people need the same things in every situation.)In the following 'special report,' I will reveal some very powerful marketing strategies and psychological motivators that can easily help you make more profits from your business, no matter what business you're in.Be sure to read it thoroughly, and take notes as needed so that you can take maximum advantage of the information being covered.Here's how it all began…One day, I noticed an interesting marketing concept. So, I sent my subs Here are some tips to begin moving out of unconscious assumptions to conscious curiosity: 1. Look for opportunities to practice being Secrets to Powerful Negotiations We draw conclusions about people through observation, their behavior, past experiences, other people’s comments, etc. We assume who people are, what they think/need/want with such speed we fail to recognize how our own viewpoint colors the way we connect with and relate to people and situations. We even hold assumptions about ourselves!We negotiate every day. There are negotiations in sales, customer service, interviewing for a position, and relationships between vendors and suppliers. The most powerful tool in negotiations is not what we say, it is what we hear. Make a checklist of these five items and apply it to your next negotiations.Active ListeningIf in person, use body language to demonstrate your attentiveness. Make eye contact, respond to to statements with Let’s focus for a moment on verbal communication. Making assumptions has become a part of the way we communicate (or don’t communicate) with each other. During my coach training, one of the points that class leaders focused on was the value of listening to people with curiosity. What that means is hearing what people say, being present with them, and having an innocent, open, genuine interest to learn about who they are without judgments or preconceived attitudes. In my work, I consider myself to be an empathetic listener. I’ve become accustomed to asking questions and quickly grasping the essence of what people are saying. Focusing on staying in curiosity, I was astonished to observe the subtle ways I quickly shifted into making assumptions in my desire to understand. Saying things like " Tell me more about that, what does that mean to you, how would your life be different if you had.." brought me back into curiosity instead of jumping forward into planning strategies or problem-solving. I realized that by making assumptions, I was missing (stepping over) important information that would help me to be fully present with my clients. How often do you believe you understand the other person only to find out you have a miss – understanding??? To what extent do your assumptions cause conflicts? How often do you make a decision and/or take action based on your assumptions. What happened? So why don’t we ask questions for further clarification? When I ask this question, people tell me: * It’s such an automatic response. I don’t think to ask for more information. * I wasn’t totally sure but I was uncomfortable asking – like I should have known. * I didn’t realize I misunderstood until….. * I didn’t want to appear stupid (misunderstanding is better?). What’s your answer? For example – people often say they want to be supported. What does that really mean? I know what feeling supported and being supported means to me but I don’t know what that means to anyone else. What are people really asking for? Seeking clarification (get specifics!), about what people want/need/expect invites you to show up and respond (to that need for support) from your heart. Win-win. (Note. Using this example, don’t assume that people need the same things in every situation.) Here are some tips to begin moving out of unconscious assumptions to conscious curiosity: 1. Look for opportunities to practice being c Choosing Your ID Card Printers focused on was the value of listening to people with curiosity. 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Saying things like " Tell me more about that, what does that mean to you, how would your life be different if you had.." brought me back into curiosity instead of jumping forward into planning strategies or problem-solving. I realized that by making assumptions, I was missing (stepping over) important information that would help me to be fully present with my clients. How often do you believe you understand the other person only to find out you have a miss – understanding??? To what extent do your assumptions cause conflicts? How often do you make a decision and/or take action based on your assumptions. What happened? So why don’t we ask questions for further clarification? When I ask this question, people tell me: * It’s such an automatic response. I don’t think to ask for more information. * I wasn’t totally sure but I was uncomfortable asking – like I should have known. * I didn’t realize I misunderstood until….. * I didn’t want to appear stupid (misunderstanding is better?). What’s your answer? For example – people often say they want to be supported. What does that really mean? I know what feeling supported and being supported means to me but I don’t know what that means to anyone else. What are people really asking for? Seeking clarification (get specifics!), about what people want/need/expect invites you to show up and respond (to that need for support) from your heart. Win-win. (Note. Using this example, don’t assume that people need the same things in every situation.) Here are some tips to begin moving out of unconscious assumptions to conscious curiosity: 1. Look for opportunities to practice being Store and Maintain your Business Tools and Equipment with Self Storage . Saying things like " Tell me more about that, what does that mean to you, how would your life be different if you had.." brought me back into curiosity instead of jumping forward into planning strategies or problem-solving. 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I don’t think to ask for more information. * I wasn’t totally sure but I was uncomfortable asking – like I should have known. * I didn’t realize I misunderstood until….. * I didn’t want to appear stupid (misunderstanding is better?). What’s your answer? For example – people often say they want to be supported. What does that really mean? I know what feeling supported and being supported means to me but I don’t know what that means to anyone else. What are people really asking for? Seeking clarification (get specifics!), about what people want/need/expect invites you to show up and respond (to that need for support) from your heart. Win-win. (Note. Using this example, don’t assume that people need the same things in every situation.) Here are some tips to begin moving out of unconscious assumptions to conscious curiosity: 1. Look for opportunities to practice being Government Auctions Nationwide sion and/or take action based on your assumptions. What happened?Government Auctions: Insiders know where to find government auctions to buy homes, cars, boats, airplanes, motorcycles – even furniture, designer clothes and jewelry. The property available for public bidding at government auctions is often surplus goods the government no longer needs or confiscated as evidence in criminal cases. Since government auctions are not well publicized, insiders can buy goods for pennies on the dollar. Whether you want to find b So why don’t we ask questions for further clarification? When I ask this question, people tell me: * It’s such an automatic response. I don’t think to ask for more information. * I wasn’t totally sure but I was uncomfortable asking – like I should have known. * I didn’t realize I misunderstood until….. * I didn’t want to appear stupid (misunderstanding is better?). What’s your answer? For example – people often say they want to be supported. What does that really mean? I know what feeling supported and being supported means to me but I don’t know what that means to anyone else. What are people really asking for? Seeking clarification (get specifics!), about what people want/need/expect invites you to show up and respond (to that need for support) from your heart. Win-win. (Note. Using this example, don’t assume that people need the same things in every situation.) Here are some tips to begin moving out of unconscious assumptions to conscious curiosity: 1. Look for opportunities to practice being Direct Mail Strategy - Brand Identity Guru that really mean? I know what feeling supported and being supported means to me but I don’t know what that means to anyone else. What are people really asking for? Seeking clarification (get specifics!), about what people want/need/expect invites you to show up and respond (to that need for support) from your heart. Win-win. (Note. Using this example, don’t assume that people need the same things in every situation.)1. Know your purpose: What do you want your direct mailer to accomplish? Do you want to be remembered? Do you want to educate prospects about benefits? Recently, Brand Identity Guru was hired to expand a clients direct mail efforts, so we created a direct mail piece to showcase our clients related capabilities. Now direct mail accounts for nearly 30% of our clients new business.2. Research your market: Explore the companies on your mailing list s Here are some tips to begin moving out of unconscious assumptions to conscious curiosity: 1. Look for opportunities to practice being curious instead of "knowing." Choose some situations that would benefit from eliciting further information. Pay attention to how you are responding to people. 2. ASK QUESTIONS!!!!!!! Say things like – "tell me more about that", "I know what that means to me, what does that mean to you?" Consider what you’d really like to know. 3. Reflect back to the person what you hear them say and what you believe they mean. This is active listening. 4. Be willing to look silly or be uncomfortable in an effort to understand. 5. Recall a past experience when you made assumptions that had negative consequences. Looking back, what assumptions did you make that you can learn from now? How can you apply this information to become more open and receptive? What else can you think of? Copyright 2003, Lorraine Cohen
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