tting for great sex and marriage!

Thirdly, we all know that it’s hard to survive on one income. So your spouse also joins the workforce. Both of you work hard, have more money to spend on the kids but no time to spend with each other.

Reading your spouse's signals wrongly and having an all-absorbing focus on work and kids can be key reasons that you are not experiencing great sex in your marriage. If your marriage is important to

Many married couples do not believe that sex and marriage can go hand in hand. In fact, most of the time, it’s common to hear people say that when the marriage started, that's when the sex ended.

If you are living in a sexless marriage, here are 2 reasons you may not realize:

Reading Signals Wrongly

People marrying between the ages of 20+ to 30+ are at an age where libido is running high. For men especially, a simple touch from your wife can put you into a sexually high state. However, your wife may simply be wanting intimacy and did not expect to turn you on when in fact, she is feeling tired and not ready for sex that night.

If this happens early in the marriage, your wife may slowly be afraid even to be intimate with you, for fear of turning you on too often (and at the wrong time). This is the start of a chicken & egg situation - she’s afraid to be intimate, yet at the same time, she needs to enjoy intimacy with you in order to have great sex.

As time goes by, both partners get frustrated as their expectations of sex and marriage do not work out and as the years pass, the marriage becomes a sexless one.

Change in Priorities

You love your kids but you have to admit that your life has totally changed since they came into this world.

First you have kids, and you find all your time being taken up by caring for them. So that’s less time for enjoying a better sexual relationship with your partner.

Next, because you now have one or two extra mouths to feed, you feel that you have to perform well in your career and work to ensure that you get that promotion and provide well for your family. You work long hard hours chasing after that pay rise and promotion and return home tired. Hardly the right setting for great sex and marriage!

Thirdly, we all know that it’s hard to survive on one income. So your spouse also joins the workforce. Both of you work hard, have more money to spend on the kids but no time to spend with each other.

Reading your spouse's signals wrongly and having an all-absorbing focus on work and kids can be key reasons that you are not experiencing great sex in your marriage. If your marriage is important to y

ouch from your wife can put you into a sexually high state. However, your wife may simply be wanting intimacy and did not expect to turn you on when in fact, she is feeling tired and not ready for sex that night.

If this happens early in the marriage, your wife may slowly be afraid even to be intimate with you, for fear of turning you on too often (and at the wrong time). This is the start of a chicken & egg situation - she’s afraid to be intimate, yet at the same time, she needs to enjoy intimacy with you in order to have great sex.

As time goes by, both partners get frustrated as their expectations of sex and marriage do not work out and as the years pass, the marriage becomes a sexless one.

Change in Priorities

You love your kids but you have to admit that your life has totally changed since they came into this world.

First you have kids, and you find all your time being taken up by caring for them. So that’s less time for enjoying a better sexual relationship with your partner.

Next, because you now have one or two extra mouths to feed, you feel that you have to perform well in your career and work to ensure that you get that promotion and provide well for your family. You work long hard hours chasing after that pay rise and promotion and return home tired. Hardly the right setting for great sex and marriage!

Thirdly, we all know that it’s hard to survive on one income. So your spouse also joins the workforce. Both of you work hard, have more money to spend on the kids but no time to spend with each other.

Reading your spouse's signals wrongly and having an all-absorbing focus on work and kids can be key reasons that you are not experiencing great sex in your marriage. If your marriage is important to

intimate, yet at the same time, she needs to enjoy intimacy with you in order to have great sex.

As time goes by, both partners get frustrated as their expectations of sex and marriage do not work out and as the years pass, the marriage becomes a sexless one.

Change in Priorities

You love your kids but you have to admit that your life has totally changed since they came into this world.

First you have kids, and you find all your time being taken up by caring for them. So that’s less time for enjoying a better sexual relationship with your partner.

Next, because you now have one or two extra mouths to feed, you feel that you have to perform well in your career and work to ensure that you get that promotion and provide well for your family. You work long hard hours chasing after that pay rise and promotion and return home tired. Hardly the right setting for great sex and marriage!

Thirdly, we all know that it’s hard to survive on one income. So your spouse also joins the workforce. Both of you work hard, have more money to spend on the kids but no time to spend with each other.

Reading your spouse's signals wrongly and having an all-absorbing focus on work and kids can be key reasons that you are not experiencing great sex in your marriage. If your marriage is important to

u find all your time being taken up by caring for them. So that’s less time for enjoying a better sexual relationship with your partner.

Next, because you now have one or two extra mouths to feed, you feel that you have to perform well in your career and work to ensure that you get that promotion and provide well for your family. You work long hard hours chasing after that pay rise and promotion and return home tired. Hardly the right setting for great sex and marriage!

Thirdly, we all know that it’s hard to survive on one income. So your spouse also joins the workforce. Both of you work hard, have more money to spend on the kids but no time to spend with each other.

Reading your spouse's signals wrongly and having an all-absorbing focus on work and kids can be key reasons that you are not experiencing great sex in your marriage. If your marriage is important to

tting for great sex and marriage!

Thirdly, we all know that it’s hard to survive on one income. So your spouse also joins the workforce. Both of you work hard, have more money to spend on the kids but no time to spend with each other.

Reading your spouse's signals wrongly and having an all-absorbing focus on work and kids can be key reasons that you are not experiencing great sex in your marriage. If your marriage is important to you, acknowledge the causes and seek help before it’s too late.