subjects in this book to give you fast results because I know how desperate some of you may be and how impatient the rest of you are. Therefore, I have developed a solid program that will get you results regardless of your commitments. Even with this said, some of you would give up at the first sign of trouble and move onto another book with another approach. So if it is hard, then do it hard because isn’t your partner worth it? Of course, they are, so stick with the decision to be Great and the willingness to do whatever it takes.

Character changes may be needed. You may have to stretch your present limits to find out what your true capabilities are.

Great relationships do not just happen. They are the result of bold decisions. It took me years to realize why some relationships succeed while others fail. Individual after individual cited.

“I don’t know why she left me. I was a good husband.”

“I don’t know why he left me for another woman. I was a good wife.”

Eventually I realized that the difference was in the label. Good only gets poor results and poor results are not enough to carry a relationship, let alone make it satisfying. You have to decide to be GREAT because a great partner will do many things that a good partner will not. By making this distinction you will set a better course for yourself and thus you will get the kind of relationship that you have always wanted.

Learning to put the needs of your partner first is the core of becoming great. Many people struggle with this because of selfish patterns of desire.

In order to be a great partner you must put your partner first in all things.

Partner focused relationships center on the bigger picture, which is connectedness. The level of closeness shared will be in proportion to the sacrifices made. If you want to be at the center of your relationship and have everything be about you, then this book is not for you. I am only looking for the men and women who are tired of playing games and are looking for true results. If this is you, then welcome. I can show you a better way.

Loneliness is the consequence of self-centeredness. Time after time, I see people insist on having their own way until their partner leaves them in total disgust and complete resentment. Selfishness never works. This is a hard lesson for most of us to learn and some never do. Most people do not even realize that they have tendencies that are in fact selfish. By the time you finish this book that will be eliminated from your conduct. Your partner will look at you with eyes of respect and will feel safe in your presence. Trust will no longer be such a key issue and love will abound.

Is it ever too late to learn how to become a great partner? The answer is never. Are you willing to do whatever it takes? Most say yes but their actions say no.

Persistence is the key to achieve the transformation to greatness.

If you are a person with a sincere heart and honest efforts, you will achieve the status of greatness. It will be a result of your willingness to risk and your persistence to stay with it even when it seems that you are not getting anywhere.

Human nature is to want results fast and easy. Consistent application of these principles and skills will come over time. I designed most of the subjects in this book to give you fast results because I know how desperate some of you may be and how impatient the rest of you are. Therefore, I have developed a solid program that will get you results regardless of your commitments. Even with this said, some of you would give up at the first sign of trouble and move onto another book with another approach. So if it is hard, then do it hard because isn’t your partner worth it? Of course, they are, so stick with the decision to be Great and the willingness to do whatever it takes.

Character changes may be needed. You may have to stretch your present limits to find out what your true capabilities are. I

for yourself and thus you will get the kind of relationship that you have always wanted.

Learning to put the needs of your partner first is the core of becoming great. Many people struggle with this because of selfish patterns of desire.

In order to be a great partner you must put your partner first in all things.

Partner focused relationships center on the bigger picture, which is connectedness. The level of closeness shared will be in proportion to the sacrifices made. If you want to be at the center of your relationship and have everything be about you, then this book is not for you. I am only looking for the men and women who are tired of playing games and are looking for true results. If this is you, then welcome. I can show you a better way.

Loneliness is the consequence of self-centeredness. Time after time, I see people insist on having their own way until their partner leaves them in total disgust and complete resentment. Selfishness never works. This is a hard lesson for most of us to learn and some never do. Most people do not even realize that they have tendencies that are in fact selfish. By the time you finish this book that will be eliminated from your conduct. Your partner will look at you with eyes of respect and will feel safe in your presence. Trust will no longer be such a key issue and love will abound.

Is it ever too late to learn how to become a great partner? The answer is never. Are you willing to do whatever it takes? Most say yes but their actions say no.

Persistence is the key to achieve the transformation to greatness.

If you are a person with a sincere heart and honest efforts, you will achieve the status of greatness. It will be a result of your willingness to risk and your persistence to stay with it even when it seems that you are not getting anywhere.

Human nature is to want results fast and easy. Consistent application of these principles and skills will come over time. I designed most of the subjects in this book to give you fast results because I know how desperate some of you may be and how impatient the rest of you are. Therefore, I have developed a solid program that will get you results regardless of your commitments. Even with this said, some of you would give up at the first sign of trouble and move onto another book with another approach. So if it is hard, then do it hard because isn’t your partner worth it? Of course, they are, so stick with the decision to be Great and the willingness to do whatever it takes.

Character changes may be needed. You may have to stretch your present limits to find out what your true capabilities are.

ying games and are looking for true results. If this is you, then welcome. I can show you a better way.

Loneliness is the consequence of self-centeredness. Time after time, I see people insist on having their own way until their partner leaves them in total disgust and complete resentment. Selfishness never works. This is a hard lesson for most of us to learn and some never do. Most people do not even realize that they have tendencies that are in fact selfish. By the time you finish this book that will be eliminated from your conduct. Your partner will look at you with eyes of respect and will feel safe in your presence. Trust will no longer be such a key issue and love will abound.

Is it ever too late to learn how to become a great partner? The answer is never. Are you willing to do whatever it takes? Most say yes but their actions say no.

Persistence is the key to achieve the transformation to greatness.

If you are a person with a sincere heart and honest efforts, you will achieve the status of greatness. It will be a result of your willingness to risk and your persistence to stay with it even when it seems that you are not getting anywhere.

Human nature is to want results fast and easy. Consistent application of these principles and skills will come over time. I designed most of the subjects in this book to give you fast results because I know how desperate some of you may be and how impatient the rest of you are. Therefore, I have developed a solid program that will get you results regardless of your commitments. Even with this said, some of you would give up at the first sign of trouble and move onto another book with another approach. So if it is hard, then do it hard because isn’t your partner worth it? Of course, they are, so stick with the decision to be Great and the willingness to do whatever it takes.

Character changes may be needed. You may have to stretch your present limits to find out what your true capabilities are.

ey issue and love will abound.

Is it ever too late to learn how to become a great partner? The answer is never. Are you willing to do whatever it takes? Most say yes but their actions say no.

Persistence is the key to achieve the transformation to greatness.

If you are a person with a sincere heart and honest efforts, you will achieve the status of greatness. It will be a result of your willingness to risk and your persistence to stay with it even when it seems that you are not getting anywhere.

Human nature is to want results fast and easy. Consistent application of these principles and skills will come over time. I designed most of the subjects in this book to give you fast results because I know how desperate some of you may be and how impatient the rest of you are. Therefore, I have developed a solid program that will get you results regardless of your commitments. Even with this said, some of you would give up at the first sign of trouble and move onto another book with another approach. So if it is hard, then do it hard because isn’t your partner worth it? Of course, they are, so stick with the decision to be Great and the willingness to do whatever it takes.

Character changes may be needed. You may have to stretch your present limits to find out what your true capabilities are.

subjects in this book to give you fast results because I know how desperate some of you may be and how impatient the rest of you are. Therefore, I have developed a solid program that will get you results regardless of your commitments. Even with this said, some of you would give up at the first sign of trouble and move onto another book with another approach. So if it is hard, then do it hard because isn’t your partner worth it? Of course, they are, so stick with the decision to be Great and the willingness to do whatever it takes.

Character changes may be needed. You may have to stretch your present limits to find out what your true capabilities are. If you believe that you currently exemplify the model of greatness then I congratulate you. Please realize though, that you are always capable of more. This is an ongoing process of strength and love. This is sometimes physical strength but primarily mental and emotional muscles. Spiritual growth is also required. Ask yourself, “What am I capable of?”

What is your answer? Decide that whatever your answer may be that you are willing to push that answer to a greater level. You must be willing to stretch. Wishy-washy efforts will not produce results. You are expected to push yourself, not only by myself but also by your partner and anyone else who may have an interest in the future of this relationship. What are you willing to do? Before I asked what are you capable of, now I am asking about your level of willingness. You need to expect a certain amount of suffering on your part. Growth always involves a certain degree of pain. Anything less than I’m willing to do whatever it takes attitude will hinder your progress. Be clear about this. Do not monkey around with this initial groundwork. I specialize in helping couples in the worst kind of shape. I know what I am talking about. So do not argue, just commit yourself.

Achieving greatness also asks the question, “How much are you willing to commit to this relationship?” This question separates the serious ones from the big talkers. Unless you are willing to commit the overwhelming majority of yourself to this relationship then you will not get your breakthrough you desire. You must be willing to get hurt. The risk is always present anyway but when you open up your heart to new standards, you can get hurt. Your partner may not be as committed as you are but do not let that hinder you. I’m not so much asking that you commit everything but I am suggesting that your commitment range be from 80% on up. Pushing yourself beyond your present limits requires that I come back to a previously asked question but with greater expectation. What more are you capable of? When you think you have given all that you can, you must ask yourself, “Is there anything else that I can do?” Do you have greater efforts within you?

This is what makes the Great great. They are willing to be different from those around them.

Friends and family may tell you to give up or that you are trying too hard. They may suggest games that incite a sense of jealousy. Whatever the case may be, you must decide whose calling the shots. You have to live with the decisions and the actions that you make. Make sure that this is done to the best of your ability.

Direction comes a lot easier when you